I am a 13 year old girl and last year i liked another girl and since then have been bi. I told the girl first up cos she was my bestie and then within in two days my whole class of 31 knew too. But then on the last day of yr8 the day after i'd been given the head girl award i got home from the leavers party. my mother was furious with me saying that i shouldn't have lied and told everyone I was a lesbian. one of my friends had told her and i'll never forgive that friend of mine for it. and that holiday I was put through the worst imaginable. Locked in my room. unable to talk or see my friends. and she even sent me to a counseller. this year i've started high school. my friends from school still see my as bi (or in some cases a lesbian) but they haven't told anyone. the girl i had a crush on still avoids me and I feel sorry for her because a few days after I told her her boyfriend split up with her over the matter. but shes forgiven me. and just recently I've develloped another crush on my new friend who just might be bi or a lesbian. she told me on private she'd never had a boyfriend or a girlfriend and normally people don't put in the girlfriend part unless... i think she also may like me. she hugs me and has occasionally held my hand without meaning to (like she didn't realise she was). she also has begun to trust me which most people who no i am bi don't. i really want to tell her i am bi but im afraid that what happened last time will happen again. I almost came close to suicide and only my closest friends know that, i lost my friends and i am in no mood to be put into counselling again. tell me what you think i should do. have your rents ever done this to you? and also i go to a catholic school and if they find out i may get kicked out. Oh well!
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Wow....um. I don't know what the hell anything could be done about anything, but I think you're really brave for going ahead and telling the girl the way you did! But um. Catholic school and angry mummies and nasty children. That sounds like a big old pain in the bum!
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tezadream Regular User
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i go to a catholic school but i dont think my grade should...None of this is an over-exzagerration: half of the girls in my grade are lezo/bi.....there are about 20 guys i am sure that are..not including myself and 3 of my friends who are also gay/bi. a couple of them have come out and the teachers know...its funny soe of the comments that they make and how they just 'slip out'. SO in short...if its a catholic or not...i dont think they can kick you out for your sexuality
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Pretzel Regular User
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Actually, they are well within their rights to, because the Catholic education system has had the EOC clause on gay discrimination changed to exempt them from having to be accepting of gays. Whether or not they actually would be immoral enough to kick u out is a different story. I also go to a Catholic school in Melbourne's west, and if u go to my school i can assure you that you will quite alright, a the heads of school are working with me to set up a discrimination discussion group. As for your lady friend, i highly doubt she would be holding your hand and phrasing things the way she did if she was straight and had no feelings for you. Even if she is straight, the fact that she said she hadn't had a 'bf or gf' means shes pretty accepting of gays, and i think you are safe to open up to her.
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